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Respuesta inmediata llena de empatía de Amor y Lógica</b></p> <p>Una expresión llena de verdadera empatía (participación afectiva) tiene la asombrosa habilidad de absorber las emociones.</p> <p>Aprenda a usar un mensaje lleno de empatía que le salga del corazón. Elija decir algo que sea natural y dígalo cada vez que sea necesario.</p> <p><em>Ejemplos de respuestas de empatía que funcionan:</em></p> <ul style="margin-bottom: 0;"> <li>&quot;Ay, no. Eso debe ser terrible.&quot;</li> <li>&quot;Ah. ¡Qué lata!&quot;</li> <li>&quot;No me imagino lo mal que eso se siente.&quot;</li> </ul> <p style="margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0;"><br /> </p> <p style="margin-top: 0;"><em>Ejemplos de respuestas que no funcionan:</em></p> <ul style="margin-bottom: 0;"> <li>&quot;Sé como te sientes.&quot;</li> <li>&quot;Sé exactamente lo que quieres decir.&quot;</li> <li>&quot;Entiendo.&quot;</li> </ul> <p style="margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0;"><br /> </p> <p style="margin-top: 0;"><b>2. Respuestas ingeniosas de Amor y Lógica para neutralizar las discusiones</b></p> <p>Es importante que las Respuestas Ingeniosas de Amor y Lógica se usen en forma de &quot;disco roto.&quot;</p> <p><em>Ejemplo de una Respuesta Ingeniosa de Amor y Lógica que debe convertirse en habitual en usted:</em></p> <ul style="margin-bottom: 0;"> <li>&quot;Te amo demasiado para discutir.&quot;</li> </ul> <p style="margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0;"><br /> </p> <p style="margin-top: 0"><em>Ejemplo de un diálogo:</em><br /><br /> <b>NIÑO</b> Nunca me dejas hacer lo que quiero.<br /> <b>PADRE:</b> Te amo demasiado para discutir por eso.<br /> <b>NIÑO:</b> Sally siempre hace lo que quiere.<br /> <b>PADRE:</b> Te amo demasiado para discutir por eso.<br /> <b>NIÑO:</b> ¡Claro! Es porque la quieres más que a mí.<br /> <b>PADRE:</b> Te amo demasiado para discutir por eso. Ven más tarde a contarme algo divertido. 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