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Lo mejor es empezar con las peores opciones.</i></li> <li><i>Cada vez que dé una opción, vaya al cuarto paso para que el niño diga en sus propias palabras cuáles serían las consecuencias. Esto signifi ca que con cada opción pasarán al cuarto paso y luego, si presenta una nueva opción, regresarán al tercer paso.</i></li> </ul> <p style="margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0;"><br /> </p> <p style="margin-top: 0;"><strong>Cuarto Paso de Amor y Lógica:</strong><br /><b>Haga que el niño exprese las consecuencias.</b></p> <ul style="margin-bottom: 0;"><li>&quot;¿Cómo funcionará eso?&quot;</li></ul> <p style="margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0;"><br /> </p> <p style="margin-top: 0;"><strong>Quinto Paso de Amor y Lógica:</strong><br /><b>Permita que sea el niño el que resuelva o no su problema.</b><br /> <ul><li>&quot;¡Buena suerte! Espero que funcione.&quot;</li> <li>No tenga miedo. 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