The primary goal of the Love and Logic approach is NOT to make kids behave. Rather, our primary objective is to help them learn how to make themselves behave… so that they aren’t dependent upon rules, regulations, laws, or incarceration to control their behavior.
The ability to manage our emotions in healthy ways will serve our kids quite well in life.
Happier, healthier kids are able to master these concepts we model for them:
You can begin experimenting with one of the most powerful teaching tools offered by the Love and Logic approach: Allow your children (or your students) to overhear you talking about how you apply self-control. Examples include:
Remember: Children are typically more likely to learn when they overhear these things rather than being lectured. Have fun with this experiment and get more great ideas for developing self-control in the wonderful audio Love and Logic Solutions.