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Parent making a list of consequences rather than using the Love and Logic Energy Drain technique.

Why You Don’t Need A List of Perfect Consequences

Have you ever thought to yourself, “There has to be a logical consequence for every one of my kid’s misdeeds? The experts must be hiding the list somewhere.”It might make...

Talking and Listening to Our Kids - Part 2

Talking and Listening to Our Kids - Part 2

In last week’s post, we looked at how we talk to our kids about important matters.  This week’s focus is on how to listen to our kids. How do wise...

Talking and Listening to Our Kids - Part 1

Talking and Listening to Our Kids - Part 1

As parents, we are now spending much more time with our kids. There are times these days when we need to discuss important matters with them. There are also times...

Parent and defiant teen in conflict at home, illustrating how Love and Logic helps parents address both behavior and underlying emotional needs.

Raising a Defiant Kid - Addressing Symptoms AND Underlying Causes

When Defiance Turns Dinner into a Battle Fourteen-year-old Curtis walks in from school, throws his coat on the floor, and immediately begins the fine art of verbal brain drain: “Mom!...

Getting a Handle on Sibling Rivalry

Getting a Handle on Sibling Rivalry: Part 2

In last week’s post, we looked at two reasons siblings might fight—one being typical family interactions and the other based on kids trying to get attention and control.  This week...

Getting a Handle on Sibling Rivalry

Getting a Handle on Sibling Rivalry: Part 1

In our blog on July 2, 2020, we addressed how having healthy relationships between parents and kids is a key element in resolving sibling rivalry.  Because tensions between siblings are...

Love and Logic Works—Even on Adults!

Love and Logic Works—Even on Adults!

Is Love and Logic limited to kids? Could it even work on me? You bet it can! And it has! There was a time in my life when I had...

Man pointing finger with a serious expression

When I Take Myself Too Seriously

When I mess up my Love and Logic skills, one of the first explanations is that I am taking myself too seriously.  I have a scowl on my face instead...

Mother and daughter touching foreheads and smiling, representing connection and understanding behind defiant behavior

Treating Symptoms AND Causes of Defiance

Fourteen-year-old Curtis walks in from school, throws his coat on the floor and immediately begins the fine art of verbal brain drain: “Mom! I’m starvin’! What’s for dinner?” Mother greets...