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Mother and young son sharing a warm, affectionate moment together on the couch at home.

Loving Kids for Who They Are, Not What They Accomplish

Jim Fay, who is a co-founder of Love and Logic and is also my father, struggled in school when he was growing up. This was a great concern to his...

Parent calmly talking with a child who says I don't care, illustrating how to avoid a parenting power struggle.

When Your Child Says “I Don’t Care”: How to Respond Without a Power Struggle

Few phrases can make a parent’s heart sink faster than, “I don’t care.” It can sound disrespectful, dismissive, and even defiant. In the moment, many adults feel a powerful urge...

Father talking with his teenage son about independence and responsibility as he leaves home

“That’s Not the Way We Do Things in This House!"

Sometimes parents get so exasperated with their teenagers that they shout things like, “That’s not the way we do things in this house!” Those could be the words of parents...